Memorial Day and Bipartisanship

This is a day to begin to act on the sense of connection we feel to others–to actually unite through service

There is a special power in Memorial Day to bring us together as Americans in these turbulent times. Ultimately, it is a day to not merely talk and think about what unites us at the deepest level. It’s a day to begin to act on the sense of connection we feel to others–to unite through service and common purpose.

This page seeks to highlight current examples of American bipartisanship in action, with each instance either directly or indirectly connected to Memorial Day. After all, concrete examples of true bipartisan service are so important. They are templates and take off points. They help us relearn the basic lessons of service.

Just as we mourn our fallen service members together and honor their legacy together, so too can we still find ways to work constructively together. Through every public service from the heart, we can make things better for our communities and each other.

I. Cleaning a Wall Together

We begin with a journalistic account of the veterans in U.S. Congress who unite yearly on Memorial Day at the Vietnam Veterans Memorial in D.C.:

Memorial Day and Bipartisanship

II. Approving Military Aid Together

A majority of Americans say they want more civility in public discourse and public outcomes that have bipartisan support. Achieving these things starts with remembering that we never really stop learning. Throughout life we continue to engage with a variety of subjects that inform our thought processes and decision making. Americans confronting the most controversial issues of the day have a lot to teach each other and even more to learn. In particular, we have a wealth of objective historical facts to consider together.

This is precisely what happened in the lengthy, highly contentious battle that concluded April 20th, 2024 in the U.S. House of Representatives. The House passed a bill to send $60 billion in additional military aid to Ukraine. The bill passed along broad bipartisan lines with majority Republican as well as Democratic support. Speaker Mike Johnson courageously risked his House speakership just by bringing that bill to a vote.

Whether or not one supports the Ukraine aid package, there is no question that the actual history of American foreign military policy as it relates to Europe was a major part of what drove the final legislative policy decision. To get a sense of the history-based argument that won the day, listen to this November 2022 interview with former president George W. Bush at his institute in Dallas:

Note how President Bush reminds everyone of two historical facts. First, while isolationist impulses with regard to others’ struggle for freedom come and go in America, the struggle for freedom is a universal theme. Ongoing. Constant. Worldwide. Second, there is nothing in the American charter or in American history that supports isolationism. On the contrary, Bush argues, America is inherently a country that both engages with the rest of humanity in the cause of freedom and has a self-interest in doing so.

Bush concludes from these facts that it would be a mistake for America to shrink from the world stage in the case of the war in Ukraine. Bush supports his long-standing, moderate approach to the red-hot button issue of immigration in a similar way, with reference to the historical struggle for freedom.

History is the social science that systematically studies and documents past human events. As such, history has as much power and potential to help bridge any given issue divide as any discipline. We don’t have to be historians to understand basic historical facts, ideas and concepts. Historians do the professional work to apply, analyze, synthesize, evaluate and think originally about historical ideas and concepts. We can sort through their conclusions. We can ground our patriotism, and ultimately our politics, in the Constitution and a basic understanding of American and world history. By doing so, we can construct and maintain sturdy policy bridges across deep partisan divides.

III. Setting the Right Example as Leaders Together

The veterans who serve in the U.S. Congress understand their special responsibility to help foster a sense of national purpose. Representatives Crow and Womack, members of the Veterans Caucus, are leading the way veterans do: by setting a selfless tone in how they conduct themselves. As the below interview shows, they clearly understand the nature of sacrifice and what it means to strive for things bigger than oneself. We need to listen, very closely, to their perspective on not just the urgent need for national unity, but how we get there.

Find A Commemoration Near You To Honor Sacrifice, Build Community

Traditional Observances All Around Oregon Make Memorial Day Matter

Oregon has a long, truly remarkable tradition of formal, civic observance of Memorial Day, the last Monday of every May set aside from work, under federal law, to remember those who have died during their U.S. military service. The diversity and depth of Memorial Day commemorations around the state testify to the power and dedication of Oregon’s people. Over the years, local veterans groups, supporting municipal governments and citizens in each area of Oregon have helped organize and attend these ceremonial Memorial Day events. As a result, Oregonians are fortunate to have many Memorial Day observances across the State from which to choose. Each commemoration reflects a community’s unique local customs. Each is tinged with its own richness and meaning.

Memorial Day parades in Oregon

There are not as many Memorial Day parades as in the past. However, on the morning of Memorial Day in Oregon, people in some cities (Klamath Falls, Prineville, Reedsport, Seaside, Wasco) still maintain the tradition, going back to the founding of Memorial Day, of having full-fledged parades. These processions wind their way through main streets and/or neighborhoods and are truly remarkable events to be a part of.

Memorial Day parade in Reedsport
Memorial Day parade

Oregonians who are physically challenged to get out to a parade, but want to experience one can tune into to the spectacular National Memorial Day Parade in Washington DC at 11:00am PST.

Memorial Day services in Oregon

The bedrock Memorial Day event for most locales in Oregon is at least one solemn and inspiring public service. Honored citizens place beautiful wreaths. A bugler plays taps. A local band plays inspiring patriotic music. High-ranking military or government officials make speeches. Ceremonies are often highlighted by gun or canon salutes and/or military flyovers. Oh, and there are often food and drinks afterwards!

Cemetery services

In Oregon, most (but certainly not all) Memorial Day services are held at cemeteries. As its original name, Decoration Day, implies Memorial Day has roots in the communal act of decorating the graves of fallen soldiers. That practice arose in various communities around the country during and just after the American Civil War. All these years and too many wars later, the tradition continues.

In cemeteries across Oregon on Memorial Day weekend you will come upon more flags than you may have ever seen placed by volunteers all along tree-lined roads and on the graves of veterans and set against often breathtaking natural backdrops. For example, more than 140,000 flags adorn Willamette National Cemetery in east Portland on Memorial Day!

There are services at each of Oregon’s four national military cemeteries (Willamette National in Portland, Ft. Stevens National in Warrenton, Roseburg National, and Eagle Point National). There are also services at city-managed public cemeteries (Ashland, Astoria, Coos Bay, Oregon City, Pendleton, Redmond), private cemeteries (Baker City, Bend, Coos Bay, Gresham, Hood River, Junction City, Medford, Salem), as well as non-profit cemeteries (Eugene, Forest Grove, Tigard, Mt. Angel).

Services at veterans memorials

In other locales around Oregon, Memorial Day services take place at a veterans memorial site. Such memorials are often located within public parks.

Vietnam War Memorial in Portland

Many Oregon cities (Beaverton, Columbia City, Gresham, Klamath Falls, Lake Oswego, North Plains, Newberg, Scappoose, Springfield, Warrenton) have their own veterans memorial sites for services. A few Oregon counties also have veterans memorials where there are services on Memorial Day (Benton County/Corvallis). Finally, you can find a Memorial Day service at one of Oregon’s several beautiful state-themed war memorials. These are dedicated to all Oregonians who died in a particular war (World War II/Salem, Korean War/ Wilsonville, Vietnam War/Portland).

Why attending a Memorial Day commemoration matters

Your attendance at one of these formal observances each year matters for two reasons. First, Oregon history and American history matter. Part of our civic responsibility is understanding that history as it pertains to war and helping our children understand it. Attending a Memorial Day service is a powerful, hands-on way to gain some of that understanding. Second, Memorial Day is completely unique as a holiday, or any day we have really, in its particular focus: to get us to reflect on the nature of major sacrifice. What can we learn from and feel about those who died in war for our country and local communities? What does it mean to sacrifice for something bigger than oneself?

So make it a point to go. Take a family member or friend with you. Look at the smiles and feel the good will and togetherness of the people around you at the ceremony. You’ll be glad you made the effort.


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